Love is All You Need

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‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your strength, and with all your mind,’ and ‘your neighbor as yourself.’ (Luke 10:37 New King James Version)

While many people are using words such as Resilience, Faith, Grace or Growth, just to name a few, as their word of the year to focus on, which are great, I have decided that this year my word will be LVE. I need to take care of myself this year in heart, soul, strength and mind (with God’s help of course) before I can be of any use to my fellow man.

Some people think that taking care of yourself is selfish or egocentric but that couldn’t be further from the truth. We all know the proverbial saying prior to flight take off is to “put your oxygen mask on first before assisting others” because we know that we are of no use to anyone if we are passed out. Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish, it is highly necessary, and after the year we just survived, focusing on and taking better care of ourselves a bit more may just help us connect better with the world around us.

Therefore, I have decided to center my 2021 goals around the words within the above-noted verse. I know that God is always with me and Lord knows I love Him, so I am going to love myself more the way He loves me, starting with my heart (physical health), soul (physical space and how it affects me), strength (doing better and being a better person) and mind (mental health and intellectual). With the grace of God, I pray that He gives me the strength to pull this off. 🙏

This year I am taking better care of myself so that I can love my neighbor as myself as God intended, and so that one day I will live the life I’ve imagined.

With lve in Christ,

Maria

Grateful Thoughts – Day 5

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Love sunrises, but I think I need to clean my windows…soon. 🙂


Such a beautiful sunny day…for the most part. Rain clouds started rolling in about 3:30 p.m. No rain today though.

With the frustrations of work at times, I’m truly grateful for the few good friends I have…quality over quantity. They make crappy days good and good days better.

It’s too bad I couldn’t find yeast at the grocery store yesterday. I really want to make more homemade fresh bread. It’s so good right out of the oven with a pat of butter. Once I find yeast, I’ll post a link of the recipe I followed for the bread I made a few weeks ago. Fresh bread is mmm mmm good.

Which do you prefer, sunrises or sunsets, or are you like me and love them both?

Ciao for now.

Grateful Thoughts – Day 4

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Once I got home from work yesterday, and after working on accounts all day, my brain was fried. All I wanted to do and what I did do was watch a couple movies. Curling up and watching a good movie on a rainy day is such a great feeling.

As I don’t really own a raincoat or an umbrella, I was a little worried that I would have had to walk in the rain to work but thankfully the rain subsided enough so I could get to work without getting soaked. I love how fresh the world smells when it rains.

What was the weather like in your neck of the woods?

Ciao for now.

Grateful Thoughts – Day 3

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Sunday is my favourite day of the week. The Lord’s day. A day of rest. The world slows down, at least for a while, even during this time, and you can sense the overall calm and peace the day bestows on us.

I love Sunday afternoon naps; definitely one of my favourite things. If the Lord could rest one day of the week, so shall I.

I hope to find a Hallmark movie to watch on YouTube this evening. I love movies, especially romantic comedies…what can I say, I’m a hopeless (hopeful) romantic. ❤

Even though I didn’t do anything earth shattering this weekend, such as totally decluttering and deep cleaning my apartment, I am glad I listened to my mind and body and just rested. Lord knows I needed it.

What did you do this weekend to take care of you?

Ciao for now.

Grateful Thoughts – Day 2

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Well today was a slow day, but that’s fine by me. Slow days are much needed after the week I had.

Today I decided to tackle the basket full of filled journals and planners. I enjoy writing down my thoughts, plans and ideas, however, when they are negative, which I realized were a lot, or the planners served their purpose, there is no need for me to keep it.

I took the majority of the day reading a lot of entries, way too many negative thoughts, which really started to bother me a great deal. After a while I just skimmed them for important information I may need later, then I either put it in the recycling bin or the bag to be shredded.

There are oh so many more tasks such as this to complete, but I sure am glad to have this one thing off my mind and list. It was actually quite cathartic ripping up all those negative thoughts.

On to the next thing…another day…

Ciao for now.

Grateful Thoughts – Day 1

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A beautiful beam of sunlight on a pleasant spring afternoon.

My morning walk was relaxing and peaceful. The sun was shining. The birds were singing. Only pleasant thoughts crowded my mind until…I started work. I was doing so well with seeking the good, and then the demands of the day bombarded me all at once. I am grateful to have a job during this trying time, truly I am, but some days are just too much to handle. Some days, it takes a concerted effort to find the good, but I do know there is good in every day if I just look.

OK. Deep breath…what am I grateful for today?

First and foremost I am glad God is always with me, even though it does not seem that way at times. When the days get overwhelming and at times suffocating, it becomes difficult to hear Him through all the clutter. God always knows when we need Him, we just need to listen and open our eyes and hearts. He shows us He’s with us through the beautiful sunbeams peeking through billowy clouds and the sounds of kind words wafting through the breeze.

Anything else you care to share, Maria?

It’s Friday, baby! Yayh! 🙂 It has been a long week, but I survived. I am looking forward to a couple days off before the work begins again on Monday. My plan is to minimize more of my belongings, and tidy up a bit, but if my mind, body and soul decide this weekend is as good as any to just do nothing except take care of me, then I will gladly oblige.

How was your first day of May? What good did you seek and find?

Ciao for now.

Seek the Good

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“Gratitude helps you fall in love with the life you already have.”
—Kristen Hewitt

Although I think a lot about how truly grateful I am for the many blessings in my life, most days, as of late, have been overshadowed by negative thoughts and speech. My complaining and negativity is much louder and more pronounced than the part of me that is truly grateful for all the good. I have to remind myself daily, and sometimes hourly, that even in the bad parts of life, more often than not, there is an abundance of good.

For the month of May I am challenging myself to seek the good daily and write about it. What am I grateful for? What or whom do I appreciate? What miracles have I witnessed? What kindness have I seen or bestowed on someone else? And on and on. If you have been feeling like a Debbie Downer lately such as I have, please consider coming along on this adventure.

The first blog entry will be available shortly. Stay tuned.

2020 Goals

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“A dream written down with a date becomes a goal. A goal broken down into steps becomes a plan. A plan backed by action makes your dreams come true.” — Greg Reid

Let’s talk goals, resolutions and intentions for the year 2020. We all make them, most of the time we break them, but this year we are going to crush them.

I could talk about how to set realistic, attainable goals and the whole science behind it, but let’s not. Let’s just get down to the nitty gritty and get those 2020 goals out there and start acting on them.

  • Get healthy…again (lose fat, gain muscle; lose the unhealthy Maria, gain the girl I know is inside her).
  • Minimalism/simplify…remove things from the home and life that do not bring value to it. I need a calm and peaceful home to come to at the end of a stressful and overwhelming day at the office.
  • Learn something…a new skill, a new language, ways to becoming the best version of myself in every sense of the word; just learn something.

Get Healthy

Even though getting healthy and being healthy is a life-long work in progress, it’s all worth it.
Plan of Action: (1) go back to kickboxing; (2) figure out the right eating plan for me; and (3) choose and train for a challenge I want to complete this year.

Minimalism/Simplify

This has been one of my goals for at least the last few years. This year I intend to create the home and most importantly the life I want and need.
Plan of Action: (1) do a monthly minimalism game for the entire year; and (2) evaluate and re-evaluate my life.

Learn Something

We learn something new every day, we just need to slow down enough to realize it.
Plan of Action: (1) learn a language; (2) learn a skill; and (3) learn how to be the person I dreamed about and have the life I know I deserve.

So you see, I have my work cut out for me, but I know in my heart of hearts that I’m finally ready…again…to work on myself and my life. I deserve it. The world deserves that from me.

Let Your Light Shine

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“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” — Marianne Williamson

I would love to say that the reason I haven’t written anything on my blog for well over a year is because I’ve been out there living the life I imagined, but alas that would be a complete and utter lie.  You see, 2019 was a tough one for me, mind you most years have been challenging since losing my dad in 2013.  However, I know he would want me to be happy; that’s all parents really want for their children.

I am grateful though, last year I had a profound chance to go on a 10-day pilgrimage to Israel.  I met some wonderful people and saw numerous beautiful places.  That trip was an edifying experience that is pushing me to get my life back on track.  I became acutely aware that the light that shone forth from me years ago dimmed considerably once my dad fell ill and then left this physical world.  I want that light back.  I need that light back.

God, please help me in this journey; You know I will not be able to do it on my own.

2020…let’s do this…

Training for the Big Ride

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“Challenge is the core and the mainspring of all human activity. If there’s an ocean, we cross it; if there’s a disease, we cure it; if there’s a wrong, we right it; if there’s a record, we break it; and finally, if there’s a mountain, we climb it.” — James Ramsey

On August 18 I will embark on a very challenging yet rewarding two-day 200+Km ride–The Ride to Conquer Cancer, which winds through the Canadian Rockies (lots and lots of hills) in southern Alberta.  I signed up for the Ride in 2011, 2012, 2013, 2017 and 2018 and 5 times out of 5 I made it to the start line.  However, in 2013 something had come up and I needed to stay home and deal with it, which, in a sense, was a blessing in disguise because my mom called early Sunday morning to let me know dad had passed…but I digress…

To even get to the start line of this riding endeavor, all riders are encouraged and required to raise a minimum of $2,500 toward cancer research and its programs, which sometimes is much more difficult than training for the Ride. Of those 5 years, I finished only once…but I finished!!! I felt so strong and determined that year…even though it rained the entire duration of the Ride…OK, I lied, the sun came out 30 minutes before I finished on Day 2. I think it helped tremendously that I went to a cardio kickboxing class 3 times a week throughout the winter; I think I even did an 8-week bootcamp earlier that year…lots of hard work between kickboxing and bootcamp. Kickboxing is an awesome workout which I’m sure all of you know consists of 60 minutes of cardio, strength, core and agility…I really need to go back. (Stop procrastinating your life, Maria, and just do it. I will. I will…after the Ride in August. Gosh, Maria, you’re so pushy. lol)

My training for the 2012 Ride (the year I finished) consisted of cycling to/from my kickboxing class 2 times a week, attending kickboxing classes and then doing 25-50 Kms rides on the weekends in the river valley…there are some excellent hills for training there. I just wish the city would finish all the construction already so I can go the whole length of the trail system. 🙂

One thing I realized doing these Rides is that I can actually do them…if my mind and body are truly in it. Thank God I didn’t stop in 2012 because if you heard the internal and sometimes external dialogue I had with myself the entire Ride, I would have quit a thousand times. It literally felt like I had a devil and an angel on my shoulders telling me to quit or to keep going. My mind knew my body could handle it, but my mind also tested me every single step of the way. Funnily enough, I was not sore at all throughout the Ride and the days following. I guess I truly was fit…I need to get back to that state of mind and body.

I still remember a trainer of mine, and now good friend, had told me, “Once an athlete, always an athlete.”  She was and is right.  I have always been active…well, some months/years not as much, but it’s funny how after a few weeks, my body bounces back. Yeah I’m extremely sore for those few weeks, but then the body gets somewhat used to it and actually craves being and staying active. (I fell off the wagon after my dad died, but that’s a story for another time.) We were never designed to be sedentary. When I read or hear people saying they run but they loathe running, I think to myself, “then why the hell are your running?”. Find something that truly gets your motor running and you enjoy doing. Find your activity and just do it!

I am 50 lbs. heavier than that 2012 Ride and 6 years older and not in as great of shape (well round is a shape, right?), but I know that if I break it down to 20-30 Km manageable “days” in my mind and take those necessary and welcome pits stops, I can and I will finish this year. (Kinda have to now since I wrote this post. haha). I’m sure hoping I don’t have a mini meltdown again on Day 1 halfway through it.

So, what am I trying to say in this long-winded, roundabout post? Find that challenge that’s going to motivate you, push you, energize you and just do it. When you take on that next challenge, the next big thing, you will thank yourself when it’s all said and done!

Now, Maria, get your arse out the door and on a training ride. You know you need it!!! 🙂